As being a young lady growing up in a very confusing house hold, you must keep your head in the right direction at all times. You have to know at all times which decision best not for just others but more important  to decide for yourself.. I feel that theirs some way directions I could have went in but because of good guidance I ended up in a better place.....so I can only image where I would be and doing if I would have went down those wrong roads/directions.